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Does It Matter What Church We Attend? — 13 Comments

  1. Doctor Cottrell,

    In reference to a true (Restoration) visible Church congregation and one not being geographically available, would a conservative acapella Church of Christ be acceptable, considering many Church of Christ congregations now offer instrumental music.

    I ask this also in light of many in the acapella thought who feel that the Christian Church, Church of Christ, instrumental movement are in error along with the traditional acapella Churches which now allow instrumental music.

    • The acapella (non-instrumental) Church of Christ in our area has gone as far as making their non-instrumental position a matter of salvation. As a result, in my opinion, they are adding additional conditions to God’s plan of salvation which the book of Revelation has very strong warnings against. Because of this, this is a church I would not attend if it were the only church in town.
      I would then resort to starting a Bible study in my home and inviting as many like minded believers as possible in order to start a new congregation.
      On the other hand….I do have a friend, who is definitely from a restoration background, who does attend, but does not support this church and he tells me he takes every opportunity to debate this church’s position concerning instruments in Sunday School classes and Bible Studies. He is hoping that his willingness to confront this church on its position will eventually turn this church around.

    • Yes, in my judgment this would be acceptable. No one congregation will likely be completely Biblical (as you understand it), even among those who use instruments. The key concern is this: can I have genuine fellowship with the members of this congregation? If its members have met the Biblical standard for obeying the gospel, then the answer is yes. Do all of its members have to be perfect in their obedience to the New Covenant law code? NO! If we are honest, we will recognize and confess that we have not done this ourselves. We are all saved sinners trying to help each other be better.

  2. Mr. Cottrell
    I am 15 years old and only about a year ago I began to believe in baptism for salvation. My parents do not believe this. I asked them if I could attend a different church. One that believes in baptism for salvation. They do not want me to go to a different church because they are afraid it would tear the family apart. What are some resources I can use, such as this site, to get sound doctrine since I cannot attend a church of Christ church? Any suggestions?

    • Joe, I am so sad that your parents do not have the same view of baptism that you have come to. I applaud you for your Biblical understanding, and I am happy that you want to follow the Word. Here are a couple of other websites that you can explore for solid teaching. One is called the Apologetics Press (www.apologeticspress.org); it is a churches of Christ group. Also, there is the Christian Restoration Association (www.thecra.org), which is likewise Church of Christ. Also, keep digging around here in my website!

  3. I am discouraged by and find it hard to understand the number of people who have grown up in Christian Churches/Churches of Christ who attend and become members of denominational churches citing reasons such as: people in _____ church are so much more loving; _____church has more for my children; The preaching at _____ church is so much better; etc. etc. While I can sympathize with those feelings and have at times been discouraged with the level of preaching, love shown, good classes for children, etc., in the Christian Church, I could never bring myself to attend, become a member of, or financially support a non-restoration church–most of which teach unbiblical doctrines and send money to headquarters that teach unbiblical doctrines. It’s just difficult for me to understand unless the teaching at their particular congregation(s) was so poor that they don’t really know biblical doctrines in many areas.

    • I echo that, Joan. Those people were never in the correct mind to contribute to what they perceive was missing.

  4. I agree with this article and printed out a copy for each one in our Wednesday night Bible study. One of the elders shared it with the other elders at a recent elders meeting. Some of them disagreed with parts of the lesson and one of them approached me about it. Following is an email from him about the “Does It Matter What Church We Attend?” lesson. Any comments on the response. I don’t see the attitude that he accuses you of having in this lesson.

    Hi Jim,

    I’ll see if I can adequately answer what made me uncomfortable about the article that Jack Cottrell wrote. I am familiar with Mr. Cottrell and some of his work, and realize that he is a well-respected leader in the Restoration Movement. I have his book “The Faith Once For All”, and while I have not read it cover to cover, I have referenced topics in it on many occasions when questions come up during my own studies.

    I also agree with what sets us apart as a church. I feel the Restoration Churches are the closest to the New Testament Church, and it’s why I’ve stayed within them since I became a baptized believer in 1997. One attitude has always bugged me, though, when serving in those churches, and that’s the pride I’ve seen in many who feel that they and they alone got it right and are therefore going to Heaven. This article promotes that idea, and therefore rubbed me the wrong way. I’ve come across many individuals who see it as black and white, that Church of Christ/Christian Churches got it right, and everyone else has gotten it wrong. As a result, they cut themselves off from those others, and don’t act in Christian love. They, in fact, see people like Baptists as our adversaries. I see it more as a continuum…some congregations are closer to the ideal, others are further from it. One thing that I’ve always appreciated about the Restoration Movement is that they seek to be Christians only, but not the only Christians…they are seeking to be as close to the New Testament ideal as possible, but that doesn’t mean other groups that aren’t part of the Restoration Movement have not also come to similar conclusions. I’m sure there are gatherings in Africa and China and even the US that have shed the doctrines of men and seek to follow the Bible as closely as possible, even if they don’t realize they are part of the Restoration Movement.

    I agree with Mr. Cottrell that we need to judge for ourselves if a congregation is following those ideals, and agree that there are several that call themselves Restoration Movement that have moved away from that. I think it is dangerous to say that by being a member of any non-Restoration church is a sin, though. Mr. Cottrell said “It is my judgment that the churches of the Restoration Movement in general are closer to the New Testament ideal…”. He suggests Restoration Movement isn’t all the way there either (which I agree with!). If it’s a sin to be in a church that is missing aspects, wouldn’t that make it a sin to be part of a Restoration Church? I sure don’t think so! Where does one draw the line when deciding it’s a sin to join ‘Church A’ but not ‘Church B’? Instead of saying “they’re in and they’re out” shouldn’t we be more concerned with moving people in the right direction…more towards a Christ-centered life supported by appropriate Bible knowledge? It’s a constant journey, and we all start from different spots. Instead of excluding ourselves from Baptists, Methodists, etc, shouldn’t we interact with them and educate them on how we’re different, and do so in a loving way?

    I know Mr. Cottrell is speaking of bigger picture issues…baptism, communion, etc. Again, I agree with the Restoration Movement on those, and feel the other groups are majorly misinterpreting scripture. I liked that Mr. Cottrell said that while it is a sin to be part of a group that is structured contrary to the will of God they can still be justified by God’s grace. That’s the key. I’m not a Bible scholar, I do what I can with the knowledge I have. I know I miss things. The more I learn, the more depth and perfection I see in the Bible…things I never considered before. God is loving, merciful, and with His help will keep me moving in the right direction. I think that’s true for all believers.

    • The elder’s letter makes this comment: “I see it more as a continuum…some congregations are closer to the ideal, others are further from it.” This is close to what I am saying also. My point, though, is that in this case we have a moral obligation to be a part of the one that is closest to the ideal. E.g., if we have two congregations that are teaching the same thing except one baptizes believers and the other “baptizes” infants, we are morally obligated to be a part of the former.

      • I would also state that ANY church leadership that teaches and preaches that baptism is not part of the salvation process is an apostate organization teaching a false doctrine leading people to believe they are in a saved condition when in fact they are not.
        These congregations should not be attended or supported in any fashion.

  5. what about attending other churches for the purpose of observing effective strategies such as management to different ministries that could be so useful ?

    • I would have no problem with this as long as this is not a substitute for membership in a New Testament church and would not interfere with submission to one’s eldership and participation in the Lord’s Supper. It would be something done in addition to regular attendance where Acts 2:42 is practiced.